1. Elvis is dead. 2. Jesus was not White. 3. Rap music is here to stay 4. Kissing your pet is not cute or clean. 5. Skinny does not equal sexy. 6. Thomas Jefferson had black children. 7. A 5 year child is too big for a stroller. 8. N’ SYNC will never hold a candle to the Jackson 5 9. An occasional BUTT whooping helps a child stay in line. 10. Having your children curse you out in public is not okay
Mekhi Phifer on Malinda Williams in Essense Magazine (Credit: MTO)
"I was 23 when she got pregnant. You want to do the right thing - what society deems as being the right thing. She wanted a structured family lifestyle that she was used to growing up. The women are dominant matriarchs in her family and the men are subversive, subservient and subdued. Me? I come from a family of men - grown-ass men handling their business.
It’s easy for a woman to say, ‘He cheated on me and did this and that.’ Look, I’m a very sexual person - I love to make love. In the morning, stink breath? I want to make love. At night after champagne, I want to make love. Women have to let men be men, not walk over them. If you are dealing with a yellow-bellied, no backbone muthaf***a, then okay. I’m a mover and a shaker - a king …
If you want your man to be there with you, you have to be there with him too - a stimulus for a muthaf***a. For most of the relationship, I was the mover and shaker, she was home complaining.”
I AGREE WITH HIM 100% ! You expected a Man that can be walked all over and controlled. That’s not him so left her alone. Women need to get they shit together just as much as Men do.